There were times when the situation weighted so heavily on my heart that it gnawed away at me and I became angry.
Then a few months ago, God opened amazing doors for a new job in a new city an hour away.
Only once I had left, did I realize how much this town and place had become home.
Often we don’t realize how important a place or person is until they are gone.
We are told to be “thankful in all things.”
This isn’t always easy, especially in trying circumstance. I’ve really struggled with this lesson at times.
However, that is exactly what God wants for us.
What have you been thankful in?
However, what happens once you finally have prayers answered?
I’ve had prayers answered that showed me this was not God’s will for my life and took me down a dark path. I’ve also had prayers answered that only God could orchestrate and proved this was God’s will for my life.
- Thank God for answered prayers
- Ask God if this is His will for my life
- Understand the lessons God has been teaching along the path
- Praise God for His blessings and provision
- Remember that God likes to show off to show what He can do
- The lesson in the wait is Faith, but we can’t abandon it once our prayers are answered
- Sometimes we have to get out of the boat and take the first step in faith
For years I waited, longing and struggling to change and improve my circumstances and situation. After leaving an abusive relationship, the journey to heal and recover took years.
I wondered if I would ever find the person I’d lost along the path.
I longed to be able to stand on my own two feet and to find a way to do this, but nothing seemed to be working.
I wondered if God heard my cries and prayers! Had He forsaken me! Would my circumstances ever improve?
Don’t get me wrong, my circumstances weren’t awful and were a whole lot better than they had been in the abusive relationship. I just wanted more to my life. There are still things, such as a family, that only God knows if and when that prayer will be answered.
- His reasons are often beyond are grasp
- He hears all of our prayers, cries, and tears
- His way is better than my way
- He is preparing me for a future that only He knows
- His timing is not my timing
- Sometimes His answer is no or not right now
- It’s not all about me. There are times we are where we are to help someone else. One example is being a caregiver.
What have you learned in the wait?
There have been times when I wondered if anything was going my way.
No matter how hard I tried or how much effort I put into the endeavor nothing seemed to work.
This led to great disappointment and discouragement. There were days when depression hit and I nothing could lift my mood.
- This too shall pass
- God is preparing me for something better
- God has a better plan
- There is a reason for this
- I need to spend more time in God’s word and in prayer seeking His will
- I need to work off the depression
- My circumstances don’t identify me as a person
What has discouragement taught you?
Last week, we discussed God’s protection as we watches over us. This week we are again reminded of this promise.
The Lord will watch over and protect His children from harm. As we discussed last week, both known harm and unknown harm. I personally can think of several harmful situations God has protected me from.
he will watch over your life;
God doesn’t just watch over us for an hour or a day and then tire of us. He watches over us for our entire life. Even in those empty, sad moments when we feel all alone and that no one cares, God is still watching over us.
8 the Lord will watch over your coming and going
God watches over us in both life and the afterlife. From before our birth into the world, until long after we enter eternity with Him, God is with us watching over us and caring for us with only the protection He can provide.
both now and forevermore.
His promises, love and blessings last forever. Time is finite. Tomorrow is gone forever and yesterday is yet to be. However, right now is the time we are in and we will never have that time back. God holds all the yesterdays, todays and tomorrows in the palm of His hand. He is the beginning and the end, the Alpha and the Omega, the same yesterday, today and forever.
I would love to be able to make a full time living writing, but I have not reached that point yet.
However there are ways to turn a creative dream into a reality.
- Determine your dream—what do you want to do more than anything
- Determine the steps needed to reach this dream—what are the steps you need to reach this particular dream and goal
- Be honest—is this dream a reality? Can you work towards being a full time writer or a singer? Or do you want to be a basketball player, although you’re only 4’8? Be honest if this is doable and if it is not then how can you make it doable. You could become a basketball coach, cover the game for a local radio station or write the articles for the newspaper?
- Write out your dream—people are more likely to reach a goal when they write it down
- Learn, Learn, Learn—is returning to school an option? Do you need a coach? Conferences, seminars, blogs on your specialty, books and online classes are a great way to learn and grow.
- Practice, Practice, Practice—begin working on the craft and learning
- Network—whether it is attending conferences and seminars, joining local groups or finding a critique group find ways to network and continue learning.
- Business—remember that you are working towards establishing a business. Learn all you need to know about the business aspects of your industry. I know I’ve learned a lot through trial and error.
- Perseverance—don’t give up. The path is never straight and narrow. There will be many twists and turns along the way. The goal is to never give up but keep learning, practicing and working hard to move forward.
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