Alzheimer’s is a terrible disease and there are times when traumatic moments and horrific memories return to traumatize the patient.
So what are some ways to calm the patient?
- Redirect the patient and see if you can get their mind on something else
- Allow the patient to speak about the incident—some need to express their feelings and what was experienced in a safe and loving environment. Never judge or push for information, but allow the patient to share what s/he is comfortable with.
- Music—sing a song or hymn that is comforting to the patient. If you can’t sing, put on some soothing music, whether it is a collection of hymns or instrumental {especially piano} music.
- Pray—if the patient is a praying person, ask them to pray or if you can pray with them. I have seen amazing changes happen with prayer in a person with Alzheimer’s.
Prayer changes things - Love—sometimes the patient just needs to feel loved and safe
- Touch—the power of touch is powerful. Often a hand on the shoulder or a pat of the hand does amazing wonders in soothing a patient that is troubled. This is a comforting act to him/her.
- Family—sometimes seeing a familiar face is all that is needed. I have seen Alzheimer’s patient’s entire demeanor change when they are able to see a spouse, child or grandchild. This brings comfort and assures the patient that s/he is not alone and not forgotten.
What has worked for you in dealing with traumatic situations in an Alzheimer’s patient?